23 December 2025
Molly Butler, Consultant, Mannaz
Resistance is rarely about outright opposition to fairness or inclusion. Instead, it often stems from deeper psychological and organisational factors:
DEI adds another layer of complexity because it challenges traditional structures and requires systemic change, and dealing with this is certainly complex.
One way for leaders to approach this is to recognize that there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Leaders need to experiment, learn and adjust as they go, and recognize that resistance can highlight areas where deeper engagement is needed.
Inclusive leadership means holding space for diverse viewpoints – even when they clash. This requires curiosity and the ability to navigate different perspectives without rushing to easy answers. Since uncertainty and complexity can trigger anxiety, leaders need to continuously work towards fostering a psychologically safe environment. This can enable teams to voice concerns and explore new ways of working without fear of judgement.
Leaders play a pivotal role in transforming resistance into engagement. Some practical approaches:
1. Start with empathy and active Listening
Before pushing for change, seek to understand concerns. Ask open-ended questions and listen without judgement. Acknowledging fears and frustrations builds trust and opens the door to dialogue.
2. Clarify the ‘Why’ behind DEI
Connect DEI to organisational goals – innovation, talent retention, and market relevance. When employees see DEI as a driver of success rather than a box-ticking exercise, commitment grows.
3. Share stories and data
Share success stories where inclusion improved team performance, and back them up with data showing the business impact of diverse teams. Facts such as numbers and statistics that prove why DEI is worth working with.
4. Involve allies
Identify respected voices within the organisation who can champion DEI. Peer influence often reduces scepticism more effectively than top-down mandates.
5. Make it practical and relevant
Translate DEI principles into everyday behaviours: inclusive meeting practices, unbiased feedback, and transparent decision-making. Small, visible actions demonstrate that DEI is not abstract—it’s actionable.
6. Address misconceptions directly
Provide clear answers to common myths, such as “DEI lowers standards” or “It’s only about quotas.” Education reduces fear and fosters understanding.
Handling resistance is not about confrontation – it’s about transformation. Leaders who approach DEI with patience, clarity, and authenticity create cultures where inclusion is not an initiative but a shared value. Resistance is a signal, not a barrier: it tells us where dialogue and support are most needed.
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